Get Your Ex Back!

You want to get your girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife back, and I am going to show you how.  Before you read on, you should know that this technique is extremely powerful, and therefore you should be very careful when using it. It uses our innermost psychological desires that have been around for thousands of years, so almost all people, men and women alike, are affected by this technique.

The underlying principal of psychology that is exploited is simple:

• People want what they can’t have.

This is a very simple concept that we are all intuitively aware of, yet it has a purpose grounded in psychology and the drive for advancement. As mentioned before, this predates our recorded history. If early humans hadn’t had this desire to obtain what they didn’t already have, we would still be living in caves, making it day to day by clubbing small animals with sticks for food. The technique taught here is made powerful because of this desire to try to get what we don’t have.

Well, what’s the trick?

Think about it: your ex is probably not with you right now because they feel that they are in the position of power; that is to say, you want you ex more than they want you and your ex know it. Of course there are cases when this isn’t true, but if you’re the one reading this, then it probably applies to your situation.

The idea is to turn the tables and make your ex think that you don’t want them. You’re done. You’re moving on. Your ex is left wanting you more that you want your ex.

This will accomplish many things at once. Your ex will:

1. Wonder how you moved on so easily. Your ex hasn’t been able to yet!
2. Not understand what has changed; why don’t you want them?
3. Want to go after you. This is purely instinctive!
4. Wonder if you’re with someone else. Who it it? Are you happy?
5. Get really jealous. They won’t say so, but your ex will be upset that the situation has been flipped.

This is going to be VERY hard for you to do. Why would you ever do this? Of course the best way to get your ex back is to plead, beg, and generally show how much you still care, right? WRONG! This is the biggest mistake you can make!

Look at the big picture, not just the immediate future.

That means that the hardest part about using this trick has nothing to do with your situation, your ex, or your previous attempts. Your own mind will be your biggest obstacle. You will need to actually make yourself believe that you are doing fine, done with your ex, moving on, finished, feeling good, etc. So while the steps are simple to remember, in practice you’ll have to make some effort.

Ready to do it? Ok:

STEP ONE: Write a letter or email to your ex. It’s important that it’s in writting; it’s less personal that way and seems less needy. In the letter, say that you are finally moving on (and all the things mentioned above). Your life is great! You need to sound happy in the letter (just don’t overdo it).

STEP TWO: Keep the letter short, fewer than 100 words. End it with a cliffhanger. If you don’t already know, a cliffhanger is a method used in TV shows, books, and movies where the story is left unresolved until a future installment. This is used to keep the reader/viewer interested, invested, and waiting for the next show. It leaves people feeling antsy and frustrated. And that’s the emotion you are going for. Here’s a great example (you can change it to fit your situation):

“I am actually pretty excited to finally be going out with someone new this weekend. Well… I guess you don’t want to hear it.

Call me if you want.”

This is a believable story that will make your ex want to know more; a great cliffhanger. It’s open-ended. Who are you going out with? Are you dating? Is it just a friend? Is it serious? Your ex’s mind will do exactly what you want it to: jump to conclusions and think you’re dating again.

The last sentence is equally as important. You need to let your ex know what they have to do, and make them be the one to do it. If you don’t include this part, you won’t be getting a call, and you’ll just be flustering your ex for no good reason. This sentence must be thought out carefully to tell them what to do, but not sound desperate in doing so.

STEP THREE: Nope! That’s all you need to get started.

It’s really just about that simple! Just be careful not to go overboard.

There’s a slight chance they might not call you. In this case, you’ll need a little more bait. Send them an text message that says something like “See you tomorrow!”. This was an “accident”. Be sure to play it up as a mistake when they do contact you (again, just don’t overdo it).

At all times, make sure that you maintain the power called “no contact.” This means you don’t send them anything after your letter. This leaves your ex free to imagine alone what you might be doing and who you might be seeing. This will drive your ex crazy!

DON’T STOP HERE!

That’s a great start, but there is more to be done once you’ve asserted this dominance and set your ex on the chase! You will need to keep this uneven balance going, keeping yourself as the chased and the tables still turned. You can’t stop until you are begged to get back together.

To learn the rest, you will find specific instructions in The Ex Recovery System. You’ll learn about that on the next page.

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(I must reiterate: only use this trick very cautiously and have a plan ready for how to proceed once your ex does call you–you don’t want to lose them again! Click the link above to learn more.)